Sex, sex, sex. The magical word that tickles our mind like feather teasing the middle of your foot. Some people love it, some people hate it (stuck up pricks), and some people die for it and most people can’t get enough of it. It is one of the most meaningful three letter words ever in the English dictionary. It has simply more power than a tank barreling down in war trail.
But when should women start having the big “S”? Well, it totally depends on you and your standards. I mean it is no longer the time of the Edwardian period where you have to get married to get down and dirty. Today’s women should be more empowered to know what is right for them and their bodies. Social norms should not apply to you or anyone else for that matter. We make the social norms. If you are doing it safe, then why not?
OK, OK. I’ll give you the low down on when it would really be great to have sex with a man.
There is simply no right time, but date number three would be fine – The first date sex is totally cool with me. I mean it just means you both got the hots for one another. But hey, you don’t want that spark to fizzle out right? Men love the thrill of the chase. If they see you as an easy target, they will get bored with you and eventually will just find someone else that thrills them.
Just in case you guys end up boinking each, always be prepared. Don’t expect the man to carry the rubber all the time. You don’t want additional responsibilities right away. There is nothing more uncool than getting STD or getting pregnant when you’re not yet ready.
By date number three, you guys have probably exchanged a reasonable amount of texts to have sex. You have shared a bit of you with him and vice versa. Waiting a little bit helps because it builds the tension for him, making you more irresistible. Try to play the sexy game. Make him drool over you. There is no need to wear a see-through dress for that matter. Be subtly sexy. Spray some light and memorable perfume. Don’t put too much make up on. Don’t act too desperate.
Chemistry is chemistry. If you feel that there is an electric charge between the two of you, then probably you can go for it.
Don’t trade sex for attention or feelings. I mean yeah, sex is powerful and it has driven kings on their knees and all but you should not treat yourself like a piece of meat for trade. If you think you can lure a guy into a full-fledged relationship by using your wares to make him commit, well think again. Men can separate their heart and their hard on. They can be totally into you in bed, but they may not be in love with you. There must be something more than sex for him to want to be your BF.
If ever you get him to stay because of sex, things would possibly fizzle out in the end so you’ll see him bored in the end. You guys have to have more than sex to make a relationship last.
Well in the end it would always be you to decide when it would be best to jump into bed with Mr. Hottie. If you’ve got the chemistry, then go for it. Having sex should never seem to be like brain surgery. It should be fun and pleasurable. Just don’t look too clingy. Use your feminine charms to take the reins in the relationship.
Men are intrigued with mystery and sex. Keep him on his toes by sending this mysterious vibe. If he is in the office. Flirt with him sometimes but don’t just put it out there. Make him guess. Allow him to know you’re interested but not dying to be with him. Don’t be a booty call girl, be the vixen he can’t get enough of.
Sex is just so powerful. Everyone wants to have it, whether they admit it or not. The key here ladies is to be the sweet and innocent girl he wants but also be the mind-blowing sex goddess that oozes that appeal.